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by Nicole Sodoma

Excitement is building among Charlotte family law attorneys for the February 19th and 20th Collaborative Law Training featuring Pauline Tesler. Ms. Tesler, a board certified family law specialist who practices in Marin County, California, is widely-renowned as one of...
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Charlotte Observer: My Way or the Highway?

by Nicole Sodoma

Originally posted in MomsCharlotte. How many of us have heard these words from our children: “I want to do it the way I want to do it!” I hear it on a regular basis from my 6-year-old son and remind myself that he is learning his independence. But, these words are not...
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Attorney Deb Dilman Nominated President

by Nicole Sodoma

For the 2012-2013 term, Ms. Dilman has been nominated as the President of the Mecklenburg County Collaborative Family Law Group. For more information, go to www.mecklenburgcollaborative.org. Both Ms. Dilman and Ms. Sodoma are certified Collaborative Law...
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